Learning how to lead your wife with love and respect

Figuring out how to lead your wife isn't about being a drill sergeant or acting like you're the CEO of your household; it's about being someone she actually wants to follow. Most of the time, when guys think about leadership in a marriage, they get this mental image of a guy barking orders or making every single decision without asking anyone else. Honestly, that's not leadership—that's just being bossy, and it's a quick way to build resentment rather than a happy home. ...

May 2, 2026 · 7 min · Tulip Lachlan